Randy & family:
you have my sympathy and prayers. Know that this is a sad time, but remember all the good times, the fun you had with your dad, all the memories you share with the family. The sorrow seems so deep, but remember joy will come in the morning when you all get to Heaven, what day of rejoicing that will be. When you see your dad again, you will be walking and talking with him. He is smiling down on all of you, he doesn't want you to be sad too long, he is fine now. No more pain for him, and he wants you to be strong and live your life so you can see him again. All my prayers and love for you and your family.
~ Beverly Gordon
- May 25, 2013
Joan, we are so sorry about your loss. Wayne and I always enjoyed talking with you guys at the Legion. I will always remember his big smile!
I am sorry that we won't get to be with you tomorrow as we will be out of town. May God comfort you and your family. May he wrap his arms around you and give you peace.
Love you Joan! Peg Griffith/Smith and Wayne
~ Peg Griffith/Smith and Wayne
- May 25, 2013
Dear Joan and Phillips Family,
Words cannot express the sorrow and loss we feel. Robert was a special individual who will always be in our hearts as a Husband, Father and close friend of the Blancett family. As long as I can remember, Thomas II and Robert had a unique bond and friendship that became stronger over the years. They were very similar in many ways and I believe that’s why their perspective on life and how they accepted challenges drew them closer together. I remember when they started the Chanute Block Plant located on East Main Street and worked tirelessly to get the business going. Bob made the concrete block, dad stacked it on the truck. I can’t count the number of times Robert helped us resolve family issues, or worked on a car or repaired something around the house. He’s the best handyman dad ever had and believe me when I say my dad really needed a friend like Bob. They made a good team and a formidable foe so you didn’t want to get on their wrong side. And, let’s not forget the Las Vegas trips, and the group photos that would make the Godfather envious. They knew how to have fun and get everything out of life. My dad’s last evening on earth was enjoying Mexican food and drinking a beer with Bob. That’s as good as it gets. Robert was always there for Tom and the Blancett family and that’s a true testament of his character, friendship and commitment to do what he believed was right. We should all be so blessed to have a friend like Bob. I know when my father passed at home and Mom called for help, Bob was the first one to arrive. I can only imagine how difficult that was for him to lose a close friend.
I am so fortunate to have spoken with Robert during the past several months. He shared interesting stories and life experiences with me. He just wanted to tell his story and take care of unfinished business, which wasn't an opportunity my father was given because he passed so suddenly. Bob told me about an experience he had during the early 1950's flood when he must have had a divine intervention as he drove down a Kansas road at night into flood waters. He should have been swept away that night but had a purpose to fulfill in life. Maybe that purpose was to be a Husband, Father and Friend to so many, but who will just now come to realize a great man will no longer be standing beside us. He knew God must have been watching over him to guide his way in the darkness then and at the end.
Know that Robert, Thomas II and Bobby will always be in our Hearts and Prayers watching over us as we strive to live our lives the way they would want us to carry-on.
The weeks ahead will be difficult but you must continue and find strength in your faith, family and friends. Please let us know if we can do anything to help. Bob was always there for us!
Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you,
Thomas III and Donna Blancett & Family
Chesapeake, VA
~ Thomas III and Donna Blancett
- May 24, 2013
I love you so much Daddy and miss you so much already. You were my best friend. Rest in Peace. I know you are with your Lord and savior and all your loved ones that are already passed. I know you are with Bobby and all your other family. I am so glad I got time to say goodbye and to tell you just what you meant to me. You were the most wonderful man and the best father any daughter could have. You filled my life with love and laughter and joy. Thank you for being my daddy.
~ Deborah Jo
- May 24, 2013
Garrett , and Debra,
I had to laugh when the UPS came. The story behind the coins is so funny. Bob calling you @ 4 am asking you about the coins. Don Stanislaus my stepdad said "I wonder if those were the coins Bob was talking about" He called him around 7:30 am . I hope you guys found the coins that were worth the $$$$$$$$$. We all were sad and then the memory of Bob was able to live on. We all had a good laugh
Love,
Garrett, Katherine Channing, and Holly Miller
~ Holly Miller
- May 23, 2013
The Phillips,
So sorry to hear about your loss. I know that you are hurting so bad right now. I am so very sorry. I have known all of you most of my life. Bob was a very nice man. He always was willing to do anything for anyone. He loved you so much Joanne. He loved his children and grandchildren with all of his heart. Bob will be missed but never forgotten. I will read the " Poem " that Bob wrote for you Joanne. I know he loves you so much. Like Bob told you he was ready to go he wanted to see Bobby. I am glad that Bob went fastand did not have to suffer anymore. During his illness I know it's been really hard on all of you. Bob will be missed by all who know him and love him. Cherish the memories that you have . Never forget the times that you spent with him. We love you Joanne and we are here for you.
With love,
Garrett, Katherine Channing , and Holly Miller
~ Holly Miller
- May 23, 2013